Don’t let past misgivings weigh you down in the present. Do not get angry, withdraw from people, feel hopeless, or brush them aside and refuse to deal with them.Most importantly, do not let them define you. Be aware of your emotional baggage and deal with them in the healthiest way possible. Reflect on each one, find one positive truth to learn from, grow and then let go. Be optimistic, hopeful and growth oriented in coping.